Is your partner cheating? Or maybe a loved one has brought home a partner you're not sure about. A Digital Presence Audit, or DPA, is a discrete fact-finding service for people who suspect that their partner, or the partner of a loved one, is being unfaithful. I offer a consulting service to audit that person's online presence with the goal of helping to uncover signs of infidelity, if there are any.
You will receive your report in a discrete email. The report itself will be a password-protected pdf with a nondescript name for your privacy. Download a sample report.
After I've delivered your report, I'll give you a quick call to discuss my findings and possible next steps. If, after getting your report, you want me to look a little deeper into something, we will work out a plan together. My rate is $100 CAD per hour and I'll send you a quote that you must agree to before going ahead.
Give me the skinny. I need to know who you are, who your partner is, and what's going on.
The $250 CAD fee for your DPA must be paid up front. Once work has commenced, payment is non-refundable.
Paypal, or e-transfer, to firstname.lastname@example.org
Once I've received your info and payment I'll call or text you (whichever is your preference) and get cracking.
I look forward to hearing from you.
“The DPA helped me find out more information on my husband (at the time). It helped me realize the man that I was with was a con artist, to say the least… and without this help I would have been misled. Thank you!”
“I needed help with clarifying some information about someone and the DPA was very professional and thorough. I would highly recommend it. Everything is discreet from the interaction to the information requested. The report made me realize that I have a very honest partner”
“Thank you for connecting with me. I have always known my purpose was to help others that have lived through these horrible things but I didn’t really know where to focus my energy. You have given me a new-found focus and a purpose and I haven’t felt a purpose in so long. I am so grateful to have contacted you.”
I've prepared a sample report to give you a sense of the information that can be uncovered, and the format of the report you'll receive after 3 days.
It should go without saying but I'll say it anyway: in this report, Daniel & Ashley Kerns and all other details are fictional. Photographs are AI-generated.Download PDF
Read the sample report. It is vital that you do this so that you have a clear understanding of what you're getting. Bear in mind that what is in the sample report will be different for each person - if the person doesn't track to any adult websites that's obviously not going to be in your report. Furthermore, If your partner doesn't track to any adult websites that does not mean that they are not using any adult websites.
I'm a one-woman show. I offer this service in a freelance consulting capacity and not in affiliation or partnership with any other person or agency.
Use my findings and do your own research with them. I can't and won't be held responsible for any information enclosed in a DPA report, or liable for anything that happens because of a DPA report I've created. I make every possible effort to present accurate information, but it is vital that you review my findings with a critical eye and not take anything as a given. For example, I don't want your relationship ending because I found a Tinder profile that your partner stopped using before you got together. After all, you know your partner better than I do.
I can't find what doesn't exist. I cannot guarantee the results you're looking for: it's outside of my control how (and whether) your partner uses the internet. If they've got a secret TikTok account, for example, it isn't a given that I'll be able to find it. Some people are just better at hiding their behaviour and activities online than others. And sometimes, maybe your partner isn't being unfaithful after all. That's what I hope for. What I will guarantee is that I'll have your back and I'll do a damned thorough job looking.
Do not ask me to do anything unethical or illegal. I will not try to hack into anyone's accounts, and I will not break the law. The point of my work is that I value respect. Don't waste your time and mine by asking me to do anything evil, malicious, illegal or nefarious.
Audits I've started on are non-refundable. What you're buying from me is my time and expertise, and as such, once I've begun on your audit no refunds will be processed.
Waiver of liability. By filling in your form and paying the fee, you acknowledge and agree that I will not be held responsible or liable for anything that arises as a result of the report I create.
Your privacy & safety. Your safety and your privacy are of utmost importance. I will not share anything with any other party, nor will I contact them. If I do need to, I will first contact you and get your express consent. Additionally, none of the research that I do will alert anyone to the fact that they're being reviewed.
Further work. In these DPA reports, I might find a thread that reveals an entire sweater that needs unraveling. Should a scenario like this arise, I'll chat to you about it and if you'd like me to do a deeper review, I will do so at a rate of $100 CAD per hour. You will never be spontaneously billed for unapproved research.
I do not guarantee results. As I mentioned before, I have no control over what your partner does and does not do. If the type of information you'd like to get isn't findable, then I obviously won't be able to include this in your report. I will detail all of what I've done in your report, even if the checks haven't turned anything up. What I do confidently guarantee is discretion and thoroughness.
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I really care about people and I love hearing your stories. After having lived through a toxic and abusive relationship myself, seeing people being disrespected, abused and/or lied to by their partner stings. It isn't uncommon for abuse to accompany infidelity too, and if either of these things are happening to you, let me help you figure it out.
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